Category Archives: relationships
never the same…
Everything that comes into your life is there for a reason, to heal your heart and guide you to your most amazing life. Continue reading
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best friends forever
It was clear to me that Esther and Jerry Hicks had something very special. They are partners in crime for sure and they love working together, “being” together, and it’s obvious they really enjoy each other. I love how they are together. Continue reading
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you probably think this blog is about you
Do you remember as a teenager, going through some terribly painful initiation on the path to “growing up,” and thinking what a freak you were, only to hear something, read something, share your story with a trusted friend, then realize that you weren’t alone? We are not alone. We’ve never been alone. Continue reading
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resistance is futile
I have to tell you, as conscious as I try to be and as much as I know about this stuff, I still had thoughts of lack drifting through my mind. No bueno. Continue reading
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resistance is futile
I have to tell you, as conscious as I try to be and as much as I know about this stuff, I still had thoughts of lack drifting through my mind. No bueno. Continue reading
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what’s your story?
We spend so much time filling people in on the drama going on in our lives, when someone is filling me in on the laundry list of problems going on in their life, I wonder how many times they have told that story, argued for their limitations, given away their power. Continue reading
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what's your story?
We spend so much time filling people in on the drama going on in our lives, when someone is filling me in on the laundry list of problems going on in their life, I wonder how many times they have told that story, argued for their limitations, given away their power. Continue reading
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going retro
The planet Mercury rules thinking and perception and all types of communication. When Mercury goes retrograde it gives rise to personal misunderstandings. Continue reading
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grasping at straws of unhappiness
Is it “misery loves company” . . .or is our story how we bond with others. . .whether it’s via online chat groups, or in the break room at work? What about when there’s a global disaster such as 9/11, or Haiti, or the BP oil spill? It’s us against them. Is unhappiness is the only way we can feel connected? Continue reading
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learn something new
Flexing your brain muscle is a great way to stay vibrant, sexy, and young! Continue reading
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friendly, helpful people~
In the past I have had a hard time asking for help. I never asked for a ride to the airport, a lift to pick up my car from the mechanic, a run to the store when I was feeling sick. I don’t know why, maybe it was that I didn’t want to inconvenience anyone, didn’t want to owe anyone, didn’t want to need anyone. I don’t want to be like that anymore. Continue reading
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codependent no more!~
Can we all just make a pact that we are no longer going to feel responsible for how anyone else feels about anything? Not our kids, not our spouse, not our friends, not our boss or our coworkers, not anyone? Pinky … Continue reading
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codependent no more!~
I know that part of this is just being a woman, it’s in our DNA: woman=caretaker, but this is bigger. Why do I feel responsible for what everyone around me feels or experiences, and why do I feel it is my responsibility to fix it? Continue reading
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chasing approval
I finally got that, as much as I hope people like me and think I am a good person. I know that the only thing that is really important is that I live my life with integrity, do what I think is best for me and approve of myself. Continue reading
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liar liar pants on fire
Okay, so there I was, playing nice on a work project with a team, when I realized that one of the team members started giving off some really icky vibes. I didn’t say anything, just kept observing the individual. The … Continue reading
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liar liar pants on fire
I have learned the hard way that when I let someone sway me to do thing against my better judgment things don’t turn out well, and then they aren’t happy and neither am I. Then on top of it, if I do what they want and it doesn’t turn out, who’s fault is it in the end? Mine of course. Continue reading
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i will remember you
I didn’t really like him driving that far, it made me nervous that he might lose his way or get into trouble, but then I figured he had his angels with him and if he lost his way they would take over and get him where he needed to be. Continue reading
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turn it around
All the things that bother you, or things you simply notice are clues for you, like a cosmic treasure hunt, guiding you along your path to higher consciousness. Continue reading
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expecting miracles
When I woke up in the morning the first thing I thought was I would call and ask if I could make payments on the ticket, explain I was leaving for vacation and that I needed more time. That didn’t feel good, I was going to try to convince a total stranger that I couldn’t afford the ticket? Continue reading
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getting Lost
The last word in Lost is: life is just a show and we’re all playing parts. We are here playing roles with our soul group and we’re here doing it because we love and support one another. Sometimes we play a villain; sometimes we’re a hero. We never get it wrong, and we never get it done.
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it takes as long as it takes
Is she justified? Yes. Does she deserve to win? Oh hell yeah. Is that stopping the ending from beginning? Yes my darling it is. Continue reading
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it ain’t over till it’s over
He came at me out of the blue or maybe out of the oblivion, and in one fell swoop tried to time-travel me back to about age 15. And guess what, I was there, but then I wasn’t. I didn’t cower, I stood up for myself in a way I never have and didn’t think I ever could. Granted I wish I would have cooled it on the f-bombs I sent flying around my living room, but I was calm, I was firm and I was so in my own power it was surreal Continue reading
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it ain't over till it's over
He came at me out of the blue or maybe out of the oblivion, and in one fell swoop tried to time-travel me back to about age 15. And guess what, I was there, but then I wasn’t. I didn’t cower, I stood up for myself in a way I never have and didn’t think I ever could. Granted I wish I would have cooled it on the f-bombs I sent flying around my living room, but I was calm, I was firm and I was so in my own power it was surreal Continue reading
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the universe always says yes
I knew I couldn’t go there. I knew it could go so wrong for me if I didn’t line up with what I wanted. A lot of people were scared and fired up about it. I knew that as a self-employed, single mom, I couldn’t afford the luxury of a negative thought. So in one moment I decided to focus on the mantra “I thrive in any economy.” Continue reading
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soul connections
You know what I’m talking about when I say you’ve had soul connections in your life, right? I’m not just talking about romantic love here. You know deep in your core when you meet someone: a friend, a co-worker, someone … Continue reading
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three simple things
A great way to really get someone to talk and open up is to ask them about how they met their spouse or about their wedding. You can’t even imagine the glow of someone who is almost time traveling back to a time when they were young and in love, and probably haven’t felt that kind of love for their significant other in I don’t even know how long. Continue reading
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if I wasn’t afraid
If I wasn’t afraid, if I only had a brain, if I didn’t give a s**t about what people thought about me. It’s all kinda the same thing. If I didn’t worry so much about anything outside of myself and what others thought. What if I just trusted, really trusted my first thought, my intuition and acted on that. What if I didn’t really think about it at all? Continue reading
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if I wasn't afraid
If I wasn’t afraid, if I only had a brain, if I didn’t give a s**t about what people thought about me. It’s all kinda the same thing. Continue reading
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dating blind
I had breakfast with a friend this morning and told her I had a date tonight. “Text me when you’re done,” she said. That’s how we roll these days. Intro online, meet briefly, text results. My girl and I sat … Continue reading
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dating blind
I have made a list and it is divided into negotiable and non-negotiables. There are some things that I would love to have in a partner but if I meet someone amazing and he doesn’t have or do those things it’s okay, they would be preferred but they are not deal breakers. Then there are a few thing that are on my no how-no way list. Continue reading
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