Category Archives: relationships
Get ready so you can be ready
A lot women don’t value and appreciate themselves and then wonder why the men they end up dating don’t appreciate them. The thing is you have to do it first. If you put yourself on a pedestal, the man in your life will have to, or he won’t be in your life. You want to be treated with love and respect, don’t put up with less. Continue reading
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get ready so you can be ready
A lot women don’t value and appreciate themselves and then wonder why the men they end up dating don’t appreciate them. The thing is you have to do it first. If you put yourself on a pedestal, the man in your life will have to, or he won’t be in your life. You want to be treated with love and respect, don’t put up with less. Continue reading
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sacred space
When my life stops running smoothly and things start to glunk up, I only have to reflect for a moment and realized that I’ve neglected one of my most important self-care regimens: I’ve neglected to spend time in my sacred space. Continue reading
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sacred space
When my life stops running smoothly and things start to glunk up, I only have to reflect for a moment and realized that I’ve neglected one of my most important self-care regimens: I’ve neglected to spend time in my sacred space. Continue reading
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a million miles away….
The thing is, I think that we’re wired to love. I think that we’re so programmed to love and be loved in return, that we’re willing to project love where it doesn’t actually have a foundation. Don’t get me wrong: the feelings are real. Feelings are always real. Continue reading
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sunshine and moonbeams
It was a regular morning, plus I was feeling a little emotionally turbulent, plus my morning meditation felt random, then I discovered ants trying to colonize my electric toothbrush charger and had to relocate them (down the drain), queen and all. Ick! Continue reading
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whistle while you work
The thing is, when you find something you love to do, you’re good at it, and it doesn’t seem like work. Continue reading
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the star you are
I’ve been working on developing a new super power: telepathy. After watching a video called Indigo Evolution, we all should be working on this one cause the new ones coming in have it down! Indigo, Crystal, Rainbow Children, they are … Continue reading
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unpretty
Water does rise to it’s own level but it also rises to it’s own illusion. If you think you are unworthy you will attract to that level. Even when it’s nowhere near the truth. Continue reading
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goodie two shoes
Mr. Man will love your goodie two shoes bitch of a goddess more for standing her ground than he would if she had gone along with his half-baked plan just to be pleasant, all the while resenting herself and consequently him, like hell. Continue reading
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what goes around comes around
You also have your own built in guidance, call it intuition, gut feeling, woman’s intuition, you know what I’m talking about. It’s there for a reason, so take advantage of it. The more you use it, the stronger it becomes. Continue reading
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good girls & bad boys
A lot of people were shocked to hear about the whole Sandra Bullock/Jesse James scandal, I was not surprised at all. Maybe it’s because I’ve had my share of bad boys and I know how the whole thing plays out. I … Continue reading
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mirror mirror in my hand
Taking responsibility for your part in whatever is going on in your life isn’t blaming you, it is giving you back your power to make your life the way you want it. Continue reading
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two a T
I had just started dating someone myself but it was still so new, I let her go first. His name is “T,” she went into all the stats of her new beau and I felt — actually I don’t know what I felt in that moment it was so long ago –but I do remember that I too, was dating a guy named “T” and it was all sounding very familiar. Continue reading
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close enough is not good enough
I was talking to one of my clients last month; “L” is a great girl, beautiful, smart, funny, really got her life going on. Also, she is single and really ready to meet someone special. She had just started to … Continue reading
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family matters
I had a great bonding session with my brother last weekend. Our “big” sister has moved Mom and Pop in with her so she can take better care of them. After a lifetime of independent living, they’re finally reaching a … Continue reading
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grace notes~
Sometimes when I wake up in the morning, I want a little something to get my day started with grace, and I discovered a really nice way to do just that. Cheryl Richarson is a Hay House author and has … Continue reading
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go there but don't stay there
I used to feel when I first started doing this work, being more positive, following Abraham, law of attraction, focusing on what I want not on what I don’t want, etc. that once I got it I would never see … Continue reading
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let me be your angel
So, I guess what I am trying to say is be kind to the people around you, give a smile to a stranger. It takes so little effort and feels so good. Tell the people in your life that you love them. Continue reading
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pity party
Back in my early 20′s my bff had been dating this guy for about two years. Near the end, they were off and on and fighting. Early one Sunday morning I got the call. She was crying hysterically. “It’s over,” … Continue reading
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texting isn’t dating
The truth is, texting is not dating. Emails are not a relationship. Romance at a distance is the safety valve for someone who isn’t really ready for love. Continue reading
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crash into me
Of course, Annie did not do this right away. She was teaching the young punk with a 90 mph arm how to harness his thoughts, how to discipline his focus. The fact that she did this by convincing him to wear a garter belt and breathe through his eyeballs was just pure bonus. Continue reading
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my funny Valentine~
I spent some time with my two sisters this Valentine’s Day. Naturally, they wanted to know what crazy thing I was up to, so I told them I was writing a blog about love, and they both kind of looked … Continue reading
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what are you so afraid of?
I feel so blessed that for each step I take, the next thing I need is right there waiting for me. I’m baby steppin’, but I’m doing it. Everything is happening right as it should, in perfect timing. Continue reading
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losing yourself in love
Relationships are all about balance, you know? Give too little, and they wither on the vine. Give too much, and you run the risk of losing your sense of self. Oh, yeah. . .been there, done that, bought the whole truckload of tee shirts! Continue reading
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love is good for your heart
According to famous heart doctor Dean Ornish, “When you feel loved, nurtured, cared for, supported, and intimate, you are much more likely to be happier and healthier.” He goes on to say, “You have a much lower risk of getting … Continue reading
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secret to a lasting marriage
A friend of mine was telling me of a woman, ninety years old, and married for over sixty-five years. When asked what her secret for staying happily married for so many years was, she replied, “There was never a time … Continue reading
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What is your resistance to love?
So, last week I got one of those e-mail forwards, you know the ones I’m talking about, the ones that are somewhat funny but kind of a waste of time. I usually just delete them because I don’t really find … Continue reading
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