Tag Archives: boyfriend
once you’re clear it’s clear
Sometimes close enough is good enough, until it’s not anymore. Seems every time I’ve prayed for clarity, it’s been when I already knew the answer, I just needed confirmation. When you are sure of the way you’re going you don’t stop to ask for directions. But when you feel lost you probably are. Continue reading
Filed under Inspiration, law of attraction, soulmate, spirituality
a million miles away….
The thing is, I think that we’re wired to love. I think that we’re so programmed to love and be loved in return, that we’re willing to project love where it doesn’t actually have a foundation. Don’t get me wrong: the feelings are real. Feelings are always real. Continue reading
Filed under dating advice, love, relationships
good girls & bad boys
A lot of people were shocked to hear about the whole Sandra Bullock/Jesse James scandal, I was not surprised at all. Maybe it’s because I’ve had my share of bad boys and I know how the whole thing plays out. I … Continue reading
Filed under love, relationships, romance
two a T
I had just started dating someone myself but it was still so new, I let her go first. His name is “T,” she went into all the stats of her new beau and I felt — actually I don’t know what I felt in that moment it was so long ago –but I do remember that I too, was dating a guy named “T” and it was all sounding very familiar. Continue reading
Filed under love, relationships, self-care
close enough is not good enough
I was talking to one of my clients last month; “L” is a great girl, beautiful, smart, funny, really got her life going on. Also, she is single and really ready to meet someone special. She had just started to … Continue reading
Filed under dating advice, love, relationships, romance, self-care
go there but don't stay there
I used to feel when I first started doing this work, being more positive, following Abraham, law of attraction, focusing on what I want not on what I don’t want, etc. that once I got it I would never see … Continue reading
Filed under Inspiration, love, relationships
pity party
Back in my early 20′s my bff had been dating this guy for about two years. Near the end, they were off and on and fighting. Early one Sunday morning I got the call. She was crying hysterically. “It’s over,” … Continue reading
Filed under love, relationships, romance, self-care
how do you know when it’s time to go
Have you ever had a big break-up and upon reflection knew “the signs were there all along”? That’s the truth. The signs were always there, and I just didn’t want to see them — or more accurately, feel them. Continue reading
Filed under dating advice, relationships
step away from the phone
Sucks sometimes when you think you have met your future husband and you think he’s just too lame to know it yet: but girls it takes two, not just you, to make that love connection and you can’t force someone to want you. Continue reading
Filed under love, relationships
dating my dad
After my friend’s revelation, I had to admit that I had been dating my dad for years. I went back through all of my significant relationships and yep, there it was, a pattern. Uggg, I hate when that happens. I had worked on all of this stuff for years, spent thousands of dollars in therapy. I thought I had healed my dad issues. I actually really liked him even. I couldn’t still have stuff to work out. Continue reading
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