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dating blind

I have made a list and it is divided into negotiable and non-negotiables. There are some things that I would love to have in a partner but if I meet someone amazing and he doesn’t have or do those things it’s okay, they would be preferred but they are not deal breakers. Then there are a few thing that are on my no how-no way list. Continue reading

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a million miles away….

The thing is, I think that we’re wired to love. I think that we’re so programmed to love and be loved in return, that we’re willing to project love where it doesn’t actually have a foundation. Don’t get me wrong: the feelings are real. Feelings are always real. Continue reading

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sunshine and moonbeams

It was a regular morning, plus I was feeling a little emotionally turbulent, plus my morning meditation felt random, then I discovered ants trying to colonize my electric toothbrush charger and had to relocate them (down the drain), queen and all. Ick! Continue reading

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whistle while you work

The thing is, when you find something you love to do, you’re good at it, and it doesn’t seem like work. Continue reading

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goodie two shoes

Mr. Man will love your goodie two shoes bitch of a goddess more for standing her ground than he would if she had gone along with his half-baked plan just to be pleasant, all the while resenting herself and consequently him, like hell. Continue reading

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the good in goodbye

Sometimes goodbye is a nasty wrench of the heart, an oozing ache that feels like it will swallow you up. Sometimes it is the cavalry come to cut you loose just in time. But if you believe that everything always … Continue reading

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mirror mirror in my hand

Taking responsibility for your part in whatever is going on in your life isn’t blaming you, it is giving you back your power to make your life the way you want it. Continue reading

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partner or project?

Once upon a time I worked in the tasting room of a beautiful little California winery. It was a fun job and we cellar rats got pretty good at predicting which tourists would come in and say they wanted a … Continue reading

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close enough is not good enough

I was talking to one of my clients last month; “L” is a great girl, beautiful, smart, funny, really got her life going on.  Also, she is single and really ready to meet someone special.  She had just started to … Continue reading

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grace notes~

Sometimes when I wake up in the morning, I want a little something to get my day started with grace, and I discovered a really nice way to do just that. Cheryl Richarson is a Hay House author and has … Continue reading

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go there but don't stay there

I used to feel when I first started doing this work, being more positive,  following Abraham, law of attraction, focusing on what I want not on what I don’t want, etc. that once I got it I would never see … Continue reading

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scared of happy?

I was listening to happiness guru, Robert Holden, on Hay House Radio this morning, and he made such an interesting statement, I had to put everything aside and write the idea down. He said that most people are afraid to … Continue reading

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loving your inner goblin~

This is a fun meditation/exercise from our girl Colette Baron-Reid She is an amazing intuitive, author, and singer; plus she has a weekly show on Hayhouseradio.com This meditation is great because it really helps to show you  how your ego … Continue reading

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and nothing but the truth~

As little girls, we’re trained to be pleasers.  Be a good girl, a pretty girl, a well-behaved girl, and we get the reward, right? For a long time, maybe forever, I’ve kept my mouth shut. I thought I was being … Continue reading

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crash into me

Of course, Annie did not do this right away. She was teaching the young punk with a 90 mph arm how to harness his thoughts, how to discipline his focus. The fact that she did this by convincing him to wear a garter belt and breathe through his eyeballs was just pure bonus. Continue reading

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what are you so afraid of?

I feel so blessed that for each step I take, the next thing I need is right there waiting for me. I’m baby steppin’, but I’m doing it. Everything is happening right as it should, in perfect timing. Continue reading

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what were you THINKING?

You spend a lot of time traveling around in your head.  Uh-huh, that’s right. You know what I mean. Forget about going to Paris or Tahiti. You’re traveling around in your head so much, you’re anywhere but here. You probably … Continue reading

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losing yourself in love

Relationships are all about balance, you know? Give too little, and they wither on the vine. Give too much, and you run the risk of losing your sense of self. Oh, yeah. . .been there, done that, bought the whole truckload of tee shirts! Continue reading

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secret to a lasting marriage

A friend of mine was telling me of a woman, ninety years old, and married for over sixty-five years. When asked what  her secret for staying happily married for so many years was,  she replied, “There was never a time … Continue reading

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What is your resistance to love?

So, last week I got one of those e-mail forwards, you know the ones I’m talking about, the ones that are somewhat funny but kind of a waste of time.  I usually just delete them because I don’t really find … Continue reading

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love will shake you up

Hearts and flowers to writer, teacher, and astrologist, Rob Breszny @ freewillastrology.com for sharing this fabulous wisdom: “Love sometimes wants to do us a great favor: hold us upside down and shake all the nonsense out.” – Hafiz, translated by … Continue reading

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sacred love

I’ve had puppy love, romantic love, passionate love, and even unrequited love. Love in the shadows, love at the beach; 1,200 thread count love, and hunting lodge love. Instant love, and slow and sassy love. Now, what I’m going for is Sacred Love. Continue reading

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mighty aphrodite

It seems only right that in the month that celebrates romantic love give a nod to our girl Aphrodite, who also went by Venus, otherwise known as the goddess of beauty and love. Aphrodite was a regular Grecian goddess, hanging … Continue reading

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would you rather be happy or right?

I used to run a thing in my head over and over again, saying it a different way every time to see what would be the perfect way to make my point, have the person I was talking to get what I was saying and not be mad at me. Control much?? Continue reading

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the unimaginable life

I want to give a shout-out to Kenny Loggins, who wrote The Unimaginable Life book and companion cd many years ago. Up until that point I had never witnessed a conscious  spiritual relationship, let alone imagined that it was even … Continue reading

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it’s all about the love, baby!

In honor of Valentine’s Day, we’re going to do a little something special. Love  it or hate it, you get what you focus on. Don’t be a hater! Let’s all manifest a little extra love in our lives. In addition … Continue reading

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i feel good

On the long list of things you “should” do, there is probably something you don’t want to do. Here’s what I suggest: don’t do it. Period. Practice saying no to the things you don’t want to do and yes to the things you do. You’ll start to feel better. Continue reading

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match got your tongue?

Sometimes dessert comes first. Enjoy the tingly, flirty phase of infinite possibility.
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appreciate you!

Personally I am tired of feeling bad about myself and beating up on myself for not looking or acting or being perfect or what I think perfect should be. Let’s start looking at all the things to appreciate about ourselves. Continue reading

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step away from the phone

Sucks sometimes when you think you have met your future husband and you think he’s just too lame to know it yet: but girls it takes two, not just you, to make that love connection and you can’t force someone to want you. Continue reading

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