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never the same…

Everything that comes into your life is there for a reason, to heal your heart and guide you to your most amazing life. Continue reading

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once you’re clear it’s clear

Sometimes close enough is good enough, until it’s not anymore. Seems every time I’ve prayed for clarity, it’s been when I already knew the answer, I just needed confirmation. When you are sure of the way you’re going you don’t stop to ask for directions. But when you feel lost you probably are. Continue reading

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slow down to speed up

When things are going right in my life, doors open as if by magic. The right people show up. The right answers appear. Friendly helpful strangers seem to pop in just when I need them. I love it when that happens! Continue reading

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you probably think this blog is about you

Do you remember as a teenager, going through some terribly painful initiation on the path to “growing up,” and thinking what a freak you were, only to hear something, read something, share your story with a trusted friend, then realize that you weren’t alone? We are not alone. We’ve never been alone. Continue reading

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going retro

The planet Mercury rules thinking and perception and all types of communication. When Mercury goes retrograde it gives rise to personal misunderstandings. Continue reading

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codependent no more!~

Can we all just make a pact that we are no longer going to feel responsible for how anyone else feels about anything?  Not our kids, not our spouse,  not our friends, not our boss or our coworkers, not anyone?  Pinky … Continue reading

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let go, let God

There is something so magical about writing, I have to tell you, if you have never kept a journal or written in a diary, I highly recommend it. Continue reading

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chasing approval

I finally got that, as much as I hope people like me and think I am a good person. I know that the only thing that is really important is that I live my life with integrity, do what I think is best for me and approve of myself. Continue reading

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liar liar pants on fire

Okay, so there I was, playing nice on a work project with a team, when I realized that one of the team members started giving off some really icky vibes. I didn’t say anything, just kept observing the individual. The … Continue reading

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liar liar pants on fire

I have learned the hard way that when I let someone sway me to do thing against my better judgment things don’t turn out well, and then they aren’t happy and neither am I. Then on top of it, if I do what they want and it doesn’t turn out, who’s fault is it in the end? Mine of course. Continue reading

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i will remember you

I didn’t really like him driving that far, it made me nervous that he might lose his way or get into trouble, but then I figured he had his angels with him and if he lost his way they would take over and get him where he needed to be. Continue reading

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it takes as long as it takes

Is she justified? Yes. Does she deserve to win? Oh hell yeah. Is that stopping the ending from beginning? Yes my darling it is. Continue reading

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three simple things

A great way to really get someone to talk and open up is to ask them about how they met their spouse or about their wedding. You can’t even imagine the glow of someone who is almost time traveling back to a time when they were young and in love, and probably haven’t felt that kind of love for their significant other in I don’t even know how long. Continue reading

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if I wasn’t afraid

If I wasn’t afraid, if I only had a brain, if I didn’t give a s**t about what people thought about me. It’s all kinda the same thing. If I didn’t worry so much about anything outside of myself and what others thought. What if I just trusted, really trusted my first thought, my intuition and acted on that. What if I didn’t really think about it at all? Continue reading

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if I wasn't afraid

If I wasn’t afraid, if I only had a brain, if I didn’t give a s**t about what people thought about me. It’s all kinda the same thing. Continue reading

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dating blind

I had breakfast with a friend this morning and told her I had a date tonight. “Text me when you’re done,” she said. That’s how we roll these days. Intro online, meet briefly, text results. My girl and I sat … Continue reading

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dating blind

I have made a list and it is divided into negotiable and non-negotiables. There are some things that I would love to have in a partner but if I meet someone amazing and he doesn’t have or do those things it’s okay, they would be preferred but they are not deal breakers. Then there are a few thing that are on my no how-no way list. Continue reading

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Get ready so you can be ready

A lot women don’t value and appreciate themselves and then wonder why the men they end up dating don’t appreciate them. The thing is you have to do it first. If you put yourself on a pedestal, the man in your life will have to, or he won’t be in your life. You want to be treated with love and respect, don’t put up with less. Continue reading

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get ready so you can be ready

A lot women don’t value and appreciate themselves and then wonder why the men they end up dating don’t appreciate them. The thing is you have to do it first. If you put yourself on a pedestal, the man in your life will have to, or he won’t be in your life. You want to be treated with love and respect, don’t put up with less. Continue reading

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a million miles away….

The thing is, I think that we’re wired to love. I think that we’re so programmed to love and be loved in return, that we’re willing to project love where it doesn’t actually have a foundation. Don’t get me wrong: the feelings are real. Feelings are always real. Continue reading

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sunshine and moonbeams

It was a regular morning, plus I was feeling a little emotionally turbulent, plus my morning meditation felt random, then I discovered ants trying to colonize my electric toothbrush charger and had to relocate them (down the drain), queen and all. Ick! Continue reading

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the star you are

I’ve been working on developing a new super power: telepathy. After watching a video called Indigo Evolution, we all should be working on this one cause the new ones coming in have it down! Indigo, Crystal, Rainbow Children, they are … Continue reading

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good girls & bad boys

A lot of people were shocked to hear about the whole Sandra Bullock/Jesse James scandal, I was not surprised at all.  Maybe it’s because I’ve had my share of bad boys and I know how the whole thing plays out.  I … Continue reading

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partner or project?

Once upon a time I worked in the tasting room of a beautiful little California winery. It was a fun job and we cellar rats got pretty good at predicting which tourists would come in and say they wanted a … Continue reading

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close enough is not good enough

I was talking to one of my clients last month; “L” is a great girl, beautiful, smart, funny, really got her life going on.  Also, she is single and really ready to meet someone special.  She had just started to … Continue reading

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family matters

I had a great bonding session with my brother last weekend.  Our “big” sister has moved Mom and Pop in with her so she can take better care of them. After a lifetime of independent living, they’re finally reaching a … Continue reading

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grace notes~

Sometimes when I wake up in the morning, I want a little something to get my day started with grace, and I discovered a really nice way to do just that. Cheryl Richarson is a Hay House author and has … Continue reading

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let me be your angel

So, I guess what I am trying to say is be kind to the people around you, give a smile to a stranger. It takes so little effort and feels so good. Tell the people in your life that you love them. Continue reading

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a different kind of love story

Gonna mix it up a bit today.  A dear friend forwarded me this story, it’s her story, and I had to share it.  There are all kinds of love and this just proves how much love is out there.  Love … Continue reading

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pity party

Back in my early 20′s my bff had been dating this guy for about two years.   Near the end, they were off and on and fighting.  Early one Sunday morning I got the call. She was crying hysterically.  “It’s over,” … Continue reading

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